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help! i need to know if i'm doing the right thing. so my best friend just started dating this guy but i liked him first and she doesn't think its an issue but im really upset about it. how should i tell her how i feel without being a bad friend? - anonymous141

- my advice: talk to her and be honest! from my experience, she might not know how much it's affecting you until you say something; don't hold back either because you never know what she's thinking. ask her how she's feeling too! if you talk about it and nothing is resolved, you could consider taking some space apart until you both can figure out where your priorities lie.