heyy so ive liked this guy for like 2 years now and weve been shipped like basically ever since we met and hes like the worlds dryest texter so we dont really text or call but we talk sooooooooooooooooooooo musch in person and its like rlly mixed signals.
cus he said that im not his type but then we were like doing this thing like top 5 prettiest girls in our year group one for personality then one for looks and i was top of both of those lists
and we tease each other like alottttt but its like i dont wanna date now but i like wanna know if he atleast likes me cus one of my friends says that i should move on cus im too good for him but only thing is shes only seen our interactions for the past 6 weeks but one of my other friends whos seen our interactions said that if he still acts like how he did for the past 2 years (which he does) then he likes me.
She also said that she thinks that we are like soulmates whether its just platonic we dont know yet but its like in her words no matter how much we try to get over eachother its never really going to work and we'll just end up liking eachother even more
so idrk who or what to believe i just want answers but i cant ask him cus its not like i actually want to date him now yk and im 90% sure he doesnt want to date atm aswell so yh thats kinda it and loadss of others ship us aswell
and one time last year we shared a book together then he went red and said he'd do that with anyone ANDDD according to multiple of my friends once his friends werelike calling out names of girls in my year then they got to mine and he said yh then started smiling at me but im lowks deaf so i didnt actually hear him say it
and in dt he was like talking to his friends again then randomly they all started calling out my name and they all said _____ just said he likes you btw like he actually did and i dont actually think he denied it soyh tahts the actual end now byee - curious divaa
- this is a tough one diva! honestly, chemistry irl matters so much more than anything on the phone, but at the same time: if a guy wants to be with you, he should put in the effort outside of school to talk to you! if you don't want to date him (totally reasonable) where do you want this to go? you've liked him for a while now, so i think your friend might be right -- it's probably best to take the next step or let that boy go!
by take the next step, you don't have to do anything crazy. i think if you want answers, unfortunately the only way to really get them is by talking to him! boys are idiots, and he might have no clue you're interested in him (even if he really likes you). do you guys hang out outside of school? if not, ask him to hang out! maybe just go to the mall or ask to do something for halloween. it's seeming like very much mixed signals, so it's up to you to decipher them! and if you don't want to, that's a-okay: you don't have to do that much work for a boy who isn't being clear with his intentions, he should be falling over himself for you girl!
so, your options as i see it are: make a move, remain friends as you are (but maybe tell him that that's all you are, so that he isn't thinking he has a chance), or cut him off totally! you don't need to be mean, but if it's ever stressing you out, you don't need that in your life. boys come and go, and there will be someone who makes it abundantly clear he is interested in you. don't waste your time with anyone who doesn't, and focus on your friendships! who knows, if you guys remain friends, it might bloom into something bigger in the future (if you really are soulmates like your friend said).
for the most part, your friends (and me) don't know as much about your relationship with this guy as you do, so take all of these opinions with a grain of salt. it's up to you if you think this guy is worth your time and effort: if he's acted this flirty for years now, he needs to do something or you're going to be the one that got away! remember your worth always and don't forget it diva!! happy halloween xoxo
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